Blood Drive

St Mary, Cause of Our Joy is hosting three Red Cross Blood Drives this Calendar Year:

Wednesday, August 21st from Noon – 6 pm.
Wednesday, October 23rd from 9 am – 3 pm.

Donations will take place in the Large Social Hall.

Register for a time: Here!

All donors will receive a digital $5.00 Amazon gift card. Make your donation faster. Go to the day of the drive. You can do all the reading and answer the questions. You can do this on your computer or smart phone. Thank you

Mission Sunday

12670236_10153392506502934_7498804392474749178_nNext weekend, we welcome Fr. Paulus Wawan, S.X. of the St. Francis Xavier Missionaries at all of our Masses as part of the annual Missionary Cooperation Plan.

Fr. Wawan was born and grew up in Indonesia as a part of a Buddhist family. The loss of his younger sister was what touched him and his family to convert to Christianity. During their mourning and some of the most difficult moments of their lifetime, he experienced the tangible presence of God through the support and help of Christian neighbors. This loving and caring witness of Christians triggered and touched him to answer God’s call to bring hope, love, mercy and compassion to the whole world.

In 2007, Fr. Wawan graduated from the Catholic Theological Union (Chicago, IL). Immediately after his ordination, he was sent as a missionary to Taiwan—China. He was involved in various pastoral, cultural, and social fields of ministry. In October, 2016, he began a new experience: serving mentally and physically challenged children in southern China. This experience touched him so deeply that it pushed him to come back to the U.S. (in July, 2018) to go back to school in order to broaden and enhance his knowledge and understanding with mental health issue. Currently, he lives in the Xaverian Missionaries Community in Franklin, Wisconsin. He is willing to share his mission experience with anyone interested.

Being exclusively a foreign mission society, the Xaverian Fathers and Brothers depend greatly on proceeds from this collection.

Thank you

Our Lady and a Bumpkin

My Dear St Mary Family
Greetings from your Pastor, who you should know is a simple “bumpkin” from a very small village in Pakistan.

God’s plans often surprise. For Mary, her plans were to become a wife and mother with 51354328_10156301266068214_3308203056574758912_nJoseph; God’s angel asked her to accept a different plan. For me, I had planned to stay at St Jude as pastor for as long as possible. God’s, and St Mary’s plans for me were otherwise.

Mother Mary has always been an important part of my life. I believe that her intercessions continue to lead me to live God’s will: In Urdu, we pray “Salam a Mariam”, which I first learned while held by my mother, (now deceased). Two weeks before my ordination 26 years ago I was shot, and I prayed for Mother Mary to hold and heal me so that I could be ordained with my class, which I did. My first visit to the United States in 2001, coordinated by Bishop Don Hanchon, who I had met in Indonesia and again in Cairo, was a two month stay at Queen of Peace (Mary, Queen of Salam in Urdu!). In 2009, extremists attacked our parish church and burned many of our parishioner’s homes: 9 parishioners were killed and over 160 of our families were displaced. As a community, we met at our Parish’s grotto and prayed for Mother Mary to help us to heal. In 2011, I came to USA to continue to find healing.

Praying to St Jude and St Mary, I found a home at St Jude Parish in Detroit. Last year in my hometown in Pakistan we dedicated a new church – St Mary of Barnala. Now St Mary, as her gift to me for my 25th Jubilee, has called me to a new parish, dedicated to her honor. The name St. Mary, Cause of Our Joy translates wonderfully into URDU
سینٹ مریم ہماری خوشی کا باعث بنتی ہے

I am so honored that I was chosen to become the pastor of this beautifully named parish.
Please continue to pray for our parish, for the guidance of the Holy Spirit and Our Mother Mary. I ask that you also pray for me, your Pastor, as well.

Amen and May God Bless St Mary, Cause of Our Joy Parish.

Fr. Shafique

Note from Fr. Derik

Dear Fr. Ken and the parishioners of St. Mary, Cause of Our Joy,

FrDerikVestmentThank you so much for all of your prayers and support during my six years in seminary, and many more years before that. It has been amazing to see the fulfillment of God’s call in my life as I was ordained a priest. Thank you also for the beautiful Marian chasuble. It is a gift that I will treasure as I serve at another parish named in honor of Our Lady.

Around the time of my ordination, I was staying with a friend of mine at a parish in Detroit. He was one of the deacons who served at my first Mass. They have a small chapel in their community house and I was able to offer Mass there the day after my first Mass. It just so happened to be the Feast of Mary, Mother of the Church, so I wore my new Marian vestments! This picture is of me offering my second Mass as a priest.

May God bless all of you! With love in Christ,
Fr. Derik Peterman

Meeting Pope Francis

Pope Francis, like St. John Paul II, welcomes religious groups who are meeting for a particular reason in Rome, to come for a private audience. Of course, you must arrange it beforehand. Our General Assembly was invited to meet Pope Francis on Monday, May 20. Being missionaries, our meetings, although serious and sometimes tense, are casual. Monday morning, May 20, we were all dressed in black collars for our visit with the Pope. The audience began at 12:00 Noon (not 10:00 am as I previously wrote). We had to meet, all together, at the bronze door of St. Peter’s Basilica (on the right side) by 11:00 am. After our credentials were checked we slowly proceeded into the inner sanctum of Catholicism. Guarded and watched by Swiss Guards, we went inside, slowly. There is a large series of steps going into the Apostolic Palace. When I was here 18 years ago to meet St. John Paul II, we were led up those stairs. This time, we took a turn and started up a series of circular staircases, passing through various hallways (loggia). We passed through the cloisters of a courtyard and back into the building again. The loggia, the ceilings, everything is incredibly beautiful, as you would expect. We started up another series of stairs, when a Swiss Guard walked up to one of our bishops and asked if he would like to take the elevator. He agreed and grabbed my arm and said, Come on Ken, let’s go for a ride”. So, I got to see a few more loggia, and Swiss Guards. The farther up in the Papal palace you go, the Swiss guards no longer wear their colorful, striped uniforms. They were tuxedos – coats and tails. Very formal.

Eventually we arrived on the top floor, were led through a few meeting rooms, both large and small, to the last one. That was where Pope Francis would come to meet us. We arrived 30 minutes early. I imagine that most priest groups coming to meet the Pope would be seated, perhaps pray the rosary, remain in silence. We’re missionaries; people walking around the room, looking out the windows, taking pictures of the wall tapestries and ceiling. The guards just watched.

At 12:00 noon, as expected, Pope Francis entered with his secretary. HE took a seat and our Superior General read him a short introduction (previously approved by the Vatican). Pope Francis then greeted us and read from a text, certainly not one he prepared. Occasionally he would stray for the text and look directly at us. Then we felt like he was talking to us. He talked about being evangelizers, not proselytizers. He spoke about courage, and about joy. The Joy of the Gospel.

After his discourse, each of us lined up to shake his hand while our Superior General introduced us and gave the name of the country in which we work. As I shook his hand I asked him to pray for me and for my parish. He smiled. As each of us walked back to our seats, we were given a rosary with his papal coat of arms on the case. All in all, we were with him about 30 minutes. The trip back down the stairs and through the various loggia and halls went quicker. Back to work.
It certainly is a grace to be able to meet the Holy Father. What a job he has. We must continue to pray for him and for our church.

Fr. Ken

Awaken Ministry

We are honored to host the Fall Series of Awaken Ministry!

Friday, September 20, 2019⋅7:30 – 9:30pm

Friday, October 11, 2019⋅7:30 – 9:30pm

Friday, November 15, 2019⋅7:30 – 9:30pm

From the Awaken! Website:

Welcome to Awaken!

Our hope through this ministry is simply to bring people into an experiential encounter with Jesus Christ, such that they would be so touched by God’s real presence, they would be compelled to go out and share the Good News with others! We are a grass roots ministry and are not affiliated with any particular parish. We are simply a small group of faithful lay Catholics who love the Lord and the Catholic Church, and have a desire to respond to the call of The New Evangelization.

Awaken Ministry is a monthly outreach currently hosted by various Catholic parishes in the Archdiocese of Detroit, MI. The basic format of an Awaken experience is three-fold: praise and worship, the preached Gospel, and Eucharistic Adoration. Each Awaken event begins with upbeat praise and worship music lead by our band and worship leaders, followed by dynamic preaching of the Gospel message, and culminating with a profound experience of Eucharistic Adoration, which is accompanied by more praise and worship music and a time of silent adoration. Key elements such as special lighting and sound, video screens displaying worship imagery and song lyrics, a creatively enhanced environment along with contemporary praise and worship music, are all meant to foster and enhance the worship experience. Following this time of praise, worship, prayer and adoration, there is an opportunity for fellowship and hospitality, where those in attendance can share with one another about what they have just experienced.

There will be an emphasis on kerygmatic preaching, which is what Pope John Paul II described as “the initial ardent proclamation by which a person is one day overwhelmed and brought to the decision to entrust himself to Jesus Christ by faith.” (Catechesi Tradendae, 25) The kerygma goes straight to the heart of the Gospel and is at the core of what awakens initial Christian faith; it refers to the proclamation of the basic outline of the life, passion, death and resurrection of Jesus Christ. It leads a person to be able to say, “Jesus is Lord!” (Fr. Cantalamessa from Faith In Christ Today And At the Beginning Of The Church from his book the book, Remember Jesus Christ, The Word Among Us Press, 2007)

The mission of Awaken Ministry is born out of words spoken in 1983 by Blessed Pope John Paul II, when while addressing the Latin American Bishops, he said, “The New Evangelization is meant to be new in it’s ardor, new in its methods, and new in it’s expression,” and later in his encyclical, Ecclesia de Eucharistia, when he called the Church to “cultivate a lively awareness of Christ’s real presence, both in the celebration of Mass and in the worship of the Eucharist outside Mass; specifically with respect to Eucharistic Adoration, he wrote…“The worship of the Eucharist outside of the Mass is of inestimable value for the life of the Church.”

Through much prayer and the power of the Holy Spirit, Awaken Ministry has been born. May God continue to guide and direct us each and every step of the way, and may everything we do be for the greater honor, glory and praise of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ!

In HIS love and service unto eternity,

Maureen Dierkes,

Blood Drive

St Mary, Cause of Our Joy is hosting three Red Cross Blood Drives this Calendar Year:

  • Wednesday, May 29th from 9 am – 3 pm.
  • Wednesday, August 21st from Noon – 7 pm.
  • Wednesday, October 23rd from 9 am – 3 pm.

Donations will take place in the Large Social Hall.

Register for a time at:

All donors will receive a digital $5.00 Amazon gift card. Make your donation faster. Go to the day of the drive. You can do all the reading and answer the questions. You can do this on your computer or smart phone. Thank you

The Last Seminarian Update

Dear Family and Friends,

It has been a while! Though my previous update to you all was back in September, I really have not had too much news to report… until now. There have been many happenings in the past month that I am very excited to share with you. But before that, I would like to fill you in on how my final semester of seminary has been.

It really began in December, when I went on my retreat in preparation for ordination to the priesthood. I did a similar sort of thing last December before I was ordained a deacon. These retreats are to be five days of quiet prayer, directed by a priest to guide us along the way. Wanting to make sure I had a solid director, I contacted a priest that I hadIMG_0109 met a few years ago when I spent the summer in Omaha, Nebraska. He happened to be leading retreats for a few others in Door County, Wisconsin during the time that I asked to do my retreat. So, I met him up there and had a powerful retreat reclaiming my identity as a beloved son of our heavenly Father. In my prayer on that retreat, the Lord gave me the confidence I would need this semester as I approached the priesthood.

My classes for this semester are: Marriage Law (My final exam for that class is tonight. I should probably be studying for it right now…), Sacraments of Healing (We learned about and practiced the sacrament of reconciliation and anointing of the sick), Social and Sexual Teaching (a survey course over a variety of topics), Mass Practicum (practicing celebrating the Mass), and a chanting class. I also had a course where we prepared for the STB exam, which would grant us a Bachelors in Sacred Theology. This is the European equivalent to the master’s degree that I am working on at the seminary. By taking this exam, we essentially get a two-for-one deal and graduate with a second degree. But the STB qualifies us for further studies in Rome, should the bishop want to send us there for an advanced degree. If I am asked to teach in the future, this might happen. But for now, I am thankful to have passed this exam and to be done with school!

Over spring break at the beginning of March, I was blessed to go on a road trip to visit a few friends. It was a bit delayed after my car broke down a half hour away from the seminary. This was all in God’s providence. That car was old and was giving me a ton of problems. After a searching through listings online, I found a good deal on a Focus and was back on my way in a few days.

As a deacon, I spend the weekends serving at a parish assignment. I would go up to the same place I have been the past two summers. From my time at St. Edward on the weekends, I learned a lot both from the pastor and in my experience working with the people there. I was able to get more comfortable preaching and settle into my role as a deacon. But as it was over an hour away, the commute was beginning to get to me. Usually on Sundays, after serving at the Masses in the morning, I would visit my parents in Livonia and then help coach at the pole vault club nearby. I am so thankful to have this time with my parents, and also to maintain involvement in my favorite sport.

Back at the seminary, life in community kept me busy. I was the president of our student government, which primarily functions to allocate money to improve life in the house. We will forever be known and the house council that had water fountains installed! One of my favorite community activities was what we call Flapjack Fridays. The tradition began before I entered seminary, but a friend and I kept it going this year. It was simply a reason for a group of us to get together every week before class. Even silly events like that really help to build up the brotherhood of seminarians which I hope will continue after we are ordained.

Before I was given the official green light to be ordained a priest, I had one more very important step to take: a meeting with my bishop called the scrutiny. Not all bishops do this, but it was traditionally common as a last check on the readiness of the man about to be ordained. Instead of a sort of examination, it is now an opportunity for our superior to make sure he knows the man he is about to call into lifelong service. This meeting was difficult for me. I have had some mental and spiritual struggles this year; and knew that in order to be honest, I had to share these with the bishop. Still confident in my call to the priesthood, I just wasn’t sure if I was ready quite yet. But Archbishop Vigneron assured me that my struggles were nothing that God’s grace couldn’t heal and in fact turn into sources of grace for others. Since then, Jesus has shown me the power of His victory and I am looking forward to ordination with a renewed hope and strength.

Now, to fill you in on some upcoming dates. As I wrote in my last email, my ordination will be on Saturday, June 8 of this year. It will take place at 10:00 am at Blessed Sacrament Cathedral in Detroit. It is an open invitation. But if you are planning on going, I recommend arriving early. It will be packed! More information about that will be sent out soon. I will be celebrating my first Mass the next day at my home parish, and a few other Masses of thanksgiving the following weekends:

  • Sunday, June 9 at 10:00 am @ St. Mary, Cause of Our Joy (8200 N. Wayne Rd, Westland, MI 48185).
  • Sunday, June 16 at 10:00 am @ St. John the Evangelist Church and Student Center (327 M.A.C. Ave, East Lansing, MI 48823).
  • Sunday, June 23 at 11:30 am @ St. Edward on the Lake (6945 Lakeshore Rd, Lakeport, MI 48059).
  • Monday, June 24 at 7:00 pm @ St. Edward on the Lake (6945 Lakeshore Rd, Lakeport, MI 48059). This will be a Latin High Mass in the Extraordinary Form.

Then, on July 1st, I will begin my assignment as a priest in the Archdiocese of Detroit at Our Lady of Sorrows Parish in Farmington, MI. I had some of this email written a few weeks ago, but figured this news was too big not to include! It was a bit of a surprise because I did not think that the pastor of this church was looking for another priest. There will be three of us there for at least this next year, and I know that I will be in Farmington for the next three years. It is wonderful to have this news, because these are the people I will call my family and spiritual children. Not to mention that hearing of my assignment just made my whole seminary journey very real! All of my training and study has been for this purpose: to be sent to these people and lead them to heaven.

Looking back on my time in seminary, I have been amazed at how God has worked through it all to shape me in to who I am today. When I first entered six years ago, I would not have guessed what I would be like nor what the Church would be like today. Especially in this dreadful year of scandal in the Church, God has brought about a greater courage in me to preach the truth and live in the beautiful tradition of our Catholic faith. I can have this confidence in the truth of the Catholic Church because I have my faith in Jesus, who promised us that not even the powers of Hell would triumph over it. In this Easter season when we proclaim Jesus as Lord even over death, I am reminded ever more of the hope we have in Him.

I am so excited to be ordained with my two Detroit classmates and attend the ordinations of my other classmates from around the country. Please keep us all in your prayers as we wrap up our last few exams and prepare to join Jesus in His vineyard! As always, I remain yours in His Sacred Heart,

Dcn. Derik

Welcoming a New Pastor

As announced at the weekend Masses, The Archdiocese has announced that the new pastor of St. Mary, Cause of Our Joy is Fr. Shafique Masih. Father has been serving at St. Jude church on the east side of Detroit for a number of years. He visited our parish last week and seemed impressed by the number of activities, both liturgical and community. He is a friendly, down to earth person and I am sure that he will be a great leader for the parish as we move forward.

Although he doesn’t arrive until July 1, I was thinking of a few things that are useful to remember when welcoming a new pastor. Some of these I experienced and others I found. You may want to keep them in mind.

  • When a new pastor arrives, be patient with him. The grief of leaving a familiar parish and the newness of this parish might be a bit overwhelming. Be patient.
  • Don’t overwhelm him or beat down a path to his door. Give him some breathing room, time to unpack, get settled, remember the names of the staff, understand the schedule, etc. This may take a couple of months.
  • If he needs help in moving in, assist him. Make sure he wants the help. But don’t be pushy about it. Many priests like their privacy and may not want parishioners traipsing through their home.
  • Perhaps a welcome basket with some fruit and simple food would be helpful. Include one simple cooked meal that may be welcome on his first day. But not too many. We all have our own tastes.
  • Let him change his mind. Sometimes a decision made early is rushed or made without fully understanding things. Give him some wiggle room.
  • Try not to compare him to the former pastor (me). First of all, it is not possible. He will also struggle comparing St. Mary, Cause of Our Joy to his former parish. Comparisons only impede relationships.
  • Eventually tell him about yourself and about the parish. But please don’t use terms like, “Well this is the way we’ve always done it.” He may ask how things have been done. Most pastors want to keep things the way they are and not try to fix things that are not broken. So he may ask. Make sure that you know how to answer a question and not try to make your own pet peeve or feeling seem like the feeling of the parish.
  • Let him get to know you and the various groups of the parish. Sure, he can read the bulletin but if you mention to him various activities, he can decide which ones to attend and not attend.
  • Most importantly, pray for him. And let him know that you are praying for him.


Fr. Ken